Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and the card aisles of drug stores everywhere are abloom in pinks and reds. Hallmark makes acknowledging our loved ones easy. Walk down the card aisle of any store and take your pick of sentimental cards for your boyfriend, niece, or sister; goofy cards for Grandpa, Dad, and your best guy friend. You might even find a Spiderman card for the little boy you babysit.
And don’t forget about Mom and Grandma. They might appreciate a simple “I love you” in the form of a beautiful card, complete with hearts and glitter.
The one card you won’t find? “Happy Valentine’s Day to my enemy.”
Nope. Hallmark knows they won’t make a dime off that one. Because our culture is not in love with loving our enemies.
Hi, I’m Lauren Thell, author of Christian YA fiction and blogger for teens who are ready to exceed the world’s expectations.
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Happy Valentine’s Day To My Enemy: Love Your Enemies
A while back I talked about 7 virtues that help Christian teens stand out and glorify God. The last one on the list may have seemed like an afterthought: Love the people you don’t like. But if you truly want to stand out in your faith, this is how you do it.
Because while the rest of the world tells you it’s okay to hate your enemies and those you find stupid or annoying, Jesus says something entirely different:
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
Matthew 5:43-44
Why would he ask this of us? Isn’t an enemy of God an enemy of ours?
From Enemy to Ally
News flash: You were once God’s enemy.
You were once God’s enemy.
Like everyone else, you were born with a mind hostile to God and allied with Satan. Your sinful nature pitted you against God in the battleground for your soul. (See Colossians 1:21 and Romans 5:6-11.) He gave you love, you responded with greed, hate, lust, envy, anger, boredom …
Wouldn’t you say God has every right to hate his enemies?
Yet, he doesn’t.
God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
John 3:16-17
He sent Jesus to receive the abuse, humiliation, and death you deserved, and ultimately reversed your status from enemy to ally. (See my post Jesus Saved You From Sin, Death, Hell—And God.)
Aren’t you glad God chose to love his enemy?
Belong to Christ, Become Christ to Others
But it’s so HARD to love someone who is constantly mean to me!
Perhaps, but when you remember where you come from—how you received a gift of life you absolutely did not deserve from someone who absolutely did not deserve to die—you may start to rethink that. Because you are so freely and unconditionally loved by Jesus, you are free to love others without the need for anything in return.
Even your enemies.
You have the awesome privilege of being Christ to the world. Love your enemies so they may come to him, too.
Perhaps after a while Hallmark will catch on.
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Yes, the Holy Spirit greeting us at the church door works faith in our heart through the Word to love ? one another as God loves us. Thank you, Lauren! God has blessed you with a very special talent of your writings always pointing to how much God loves us and what he has done for us.
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Yes! And loving others does not mean we have to condone their life choices or agree with them, or hang out with them all the time but just by being kind, considerate, encouraging, holding them up in prayer, etc, is showing them love. I often times have to remind myself that Jesus lived, loved and died for ALL people. Even the ones I don’t like so much.
Once again, thank you, Lauren. Keep up the good work.
Very good point. Love doesn’t equate to tolerance of sin. In fact, tolerance of sin is the opposite of loving because sin separates us from God.
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