Explore common feminine issues through a biblical lens. Clothing, makeup, guys, relationships—all the topics important to ladies!
Young women today face unreasonable pressure to fit a standard of beauty that’s physically impossible, and advertisers know this. It’s what made beauty an $89 billion-dollar industry in 2023. Every woman (both young and old) desires to be beautiful and desirable in some way, leading us to fill our bathroom… Read More »Is it Okay For Christian Women to Wear Makeup?
I’m a big proponent for marrying young (think mid-twenties). If you find an honest, hardworking believer who possesses the qualities of a good boyfriend for Christian girls (any guys reading this can reverse the roles), why waste time being picky? Devoted Christian spouses are difficult to come by these days,… Read More »Find Fulfillment as a Single on Valentine’s Day
In part one of this post (The Battle Against Lust and How to Kill It), I laid out a strategic battle plan for fighting lust using the first four letters of ANTHEM: (A)voiding triggers, saying (N)o to lustful thoughts, (T)urning your mind toward Christ, and (H)olding tight to him. These… Read More »Desiring God As the Ultimate Source of Pleasure
Lust is not strictly a male problem. I don’t believe it ever was, but more and more women have come forward with their struggles in the battle against lust and the topic is finally being addressed (albeit quietly) within Christian circles. It’s about time. Lust is a powerful, intoxicating, murderous,… Read More »The Battle Against Lust and How to Kill it
Popular culture will tell you to forget it. Abstinence is impossible, so why bother? Everyone is sleeping with everyone else, and surely—surely—you’re the only virgin in your school. After all, everyone knows teens and young adults have little self-control and even less interest in purity. What do you think of… Read More »The Case For Abstinence: This is What Really Matters
Here’s a question for you to ponder: Are you happy? Would you, in a general sense, call yourself a happy person? If not, who or what is causing your unhappiness? I would be happy if… I were skinny and had clear skin. I were popular and well-liked. Everybody believed what… Read More »How to Change Your Thought Patterns and Get Out of the Toxic Rut
Ladies, let’s talk about respect—that is, respect for guys. Guy friends, boyfriends, and/or (when it applies) husbands. Because they’re constantly reminded to respect you in all capacities. So do you reciprocate? “Well, of course I do—when they deserve it! Respect must be earned.” Uh, yeah. Let’s address that thought. We’ll… Read More »The Truth About Respect For Guys: 8 Important Elements
When I was single, I read every book I could find on Christian teen dating advice. Love & Respect, Boundaries in Dating, The Five Love Languages, the no-longer-in-print I Kissed Dating Goodbye … And my dating life was still a mess. Looking back now, I’m embarrassed by some of the… Read More »Christian Teen Dating Advice: 9 Things I Wish I’d Known